Finding Footing in Paraty

by Brenna Holeman

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Paraty, Brazil

The blow struck me on the back of the head. I was standing in the middle of the street in Paraty, Brazil, the only person on the uneven cobblestones, or so I had thought. It was my second last day in Paraty; the next day, I’d journey out to Trinidade for some time on the beach. The day after that I’d be on a boat to Ilha Grande. Today, then, was for taking photos of the colourful streets of this city.

My eyes flooded with darkness; sparks shot from the outskirts of my vision. Whatever or whoever had just hit me had left me dazed, reeling. One foot staggered in front of me, trying to gain balance. One hand grasped my camera – I had been in mid-shot. I whirled around to face my attacker. I didn’t have time to be afraid.


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Paraty is a little colonial town on the Costa Verde of Brazil. I had taken a bus there by myself from Rio, walked from hostel to hostel on the beach to find a room. The first night I met a tall blonde German girl who whisked me out for dinner. She had finished two beers before our starter even arrived.

“Eh, I don’t even like him,” she told me between gulps. She had been regaling me with stories of her new Brazilian lover, a man who could dance. She had told me this with a wink. “But he’s Brazilian, you know? I like to try the local flavour.” With this she threw her head back and guffawed, cheeks flushed from the humidity and the beer. When I asked her, after a few peach-flavoured caipirinhas from a street vendor, for her Facebook contact, she guffawed again.

“Are we really going to keep in touch?” her eyes glowed in the dark, framed by her tanned skin. I liked her.

The next night, after a boat tour of the surrounding islands, a Brazilian tried to seduce me, too. He ran his finger over my collarbone, beer flecking his lips. I remembered the German’s words, but went to bed alone. I could still hear his guitar strumming as I fell asleep, the songs drifting up from the beach.

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The sun was shy during my stay in Paraty. One moment it would come out, round and inviting, turning the waves blue and the sand yellow. Just as your skin would warm, it would retreat, the ocean turning a black snarling thing again, the sand gritty and brown. Still I liked this place a lot, liked its charm and its maze of cobbled roads. I found a group of backpackers I had met in Rio and we sat on the beach come rain or shine. We drank sweating cans of beer and threw our barbecue scraps to the stray dogs who’d scratch and whine, driven crazy by the wafts of meat.

“You’ll get ringworm,” Jamie joked, but I’d pet them all anyway.

I was in Paraty for four days, perhaps a day too long with the temperamental weather. I hadn’t taken my camera out for the first two days, so, in a rare sunny moment, ventured out to photograph its colonial buildings and quiet backstreets. Again and again I’d stop, frame a photograph so that I could capture at least two or three windows, all of their borders painted blue and yellow and pink. The air was heavy, anxious with rain. The only sound was that of my new Havaianas, flipping and flopping their way over broken stones. And then I was hit.

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My heart was in my throat, or was it in my stomach? With one hand on my camera and the other instinctively clutching the back of my head, I spun on my heels.

Facing me was a young man in an army green t-shirt and cargo shorts. His own feet wore flip-flops, though his looked to have been worn for many months. In one hand he held a camera. In the other, his forehead. We were mirrored images of each other, save the cargo shorts.

“¡Dios mío!” he cried, clutching his bent head, his eyes closed. He mumbled something in Spanish.

“I’m sorry, what?” I looked around. We were the only two people in the street. He looked up at me.

“You speak English?”

“Yes.” The back of my head was starting to smart. “Did you just… did you just walk into me?” I couldn’t help the smile that was twitching at the corner of my mouth. He coughed out a nervous laugh.

“Uh, I think, I think yes. I was looking down at my camera and…” he broke into a grin. By now I was laughing, too, laughing at this comedy of errors. That two tourists could be so absorbed in their photography they could crash right into each other on a deserted street. Distracted by his screen, he had walked right into me, his forehead smacking the back of my head as I was stopped, taking my own photo.

We shook hands, laughed once more, and went on our separate ways. Once he was out of sight I let the pain wash over me, taking solace on a doorstep. I decided to turn around, walk back to the beach where my friends and a cold beer awaited.

Days later, looking through my photos, I instinctively reached up to feel the back of my head. One hand on my camera, the other on my goose-egg. Two memories from that day, though one was fleeting, growing smaller and smaller with each passing hour.

I couldn’t help but laugh.

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The photo I was taking at the time

Have you ever been to Paraty? Have you ever had a weird experience or strange encounter like this one?

Note: Paraty (or Parati) is pronounced par-ah-CHEE in Portuguese. Getting to Paraty is very easy; most hotels or hostels in Rio can easily arrange the 250km bus journey (similarly, from São Paulo it is 330km). The best time to visit Paraty is between May and August, when it is cooler. From December to March it is very humid, and this is also the high season (due to Christmas and Carnival) so accommodation is pricier during these months. I stayed at the Paraty Beach Hostel but I do not recommend it, as it was horribly dirty and swelteringly hot, with only one working bathroom for everyone. Paraty is a small town so very easy to navigate, and there are lots of shops and restaurants to keep you busy. As most parts of Brazil, it is quite expensive, but you can find street food and canned beer for cheaper. If you’re near Rio or São Paulo, I do recommend visiting. 

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Naomi February 28, 2014 - 1:58 am

“Are we really going to keep in touch?” HAHA, what a German response! Sometimes I feel like saying that when people ask me for Facebook info, too… 😉

Girl, you are still killin it. You’ve always been a fantastic writer, but the move towards more storytelling is addictive and your talents are absolutely flourishing. I’m envious! 😉 Makes me want to print out your entries and keep them with all the travel books on my shelf! x

Brenna Holeman February 28, 2014 - 2:13 am

Thank you so much, Naomi. I love your writing and photography so this really means a lot to me. And stay tuned… hopefully in the not-so-distant future there will be a real book to put in your shelves! 😉

Angelica February 28, 2014 - 3:31 am

Love this, your stories, and the way you tell them. I think you should write a book, I’d be one of the firsts to order a copy 😉

Brenna Holeman February 28, 2014 - 2:33 pm

Aw, thank you so much Angelica. I’m in the process of writing a book now, so I’ll keep you posted!

Kaelene @Unlocking Kiki February 28, 2014 - 11:05 am

I was so drawn into your story, you write them so well! That German girl sounds like a fun time!

Brenna Holeman February 28, 2014 - 2:32 pm

Thank you so much! She was – I wish I could have hung out with her again.

Tom @ Waegook Tom February 28, 2014 - 11:37 am

Loving this post, Brenna. I thought there was going to be a romantic incident at the end but alas, no. Le sigh. Also, never heard of Paraty before – it looks so pretty! ^.^

Brenna Holeman February 28, 2014 - 2:32 pm

Sometimes the romance comes later (in this case, a few days later). Just for you:

If you’re ever in Brazil, I definitely recommend Paraty. It is indeed really pretty!

Linda Jewelry Queen February 28, 2014 - 1:43 pm

Since I write books and stories, I wanted to know who do I get in contact about using one of the photos for my stories called “FEET” I am looking for people with Pretty FEET, Toes etc… the story is cute and I want to incorporate this with my stories, thanks contact me thanks

Brenna Holeman February 28, 2014 - 2:34 pm

I’m sorry Linda, I can’t allow use of my photos or words. Thank you for your comment, though!

Linda February 28, 2014 - 5:54 pm

These photos are so brilliant they take my breath away. The way you manage to frame exactly the right image is completely professional. You are a triple threat – photographer, writer, and world traveller. What an amazing combination.

I don’t know how you’ll decide which stories to choose for your book, as every single one is book-worthy!

Another wonderful read and visual experience – thank you!

Brenna Holeman March 1, 2014 - 2:09 am

Wow, thank you so much – it’s comments like these that keep me going through all the stress. I couldn’t do it without the support of all my family and friends! I’m so happy that you enjoy my posts.

Laura March 1, 2014 - 1:02 am

What a great story! I’ve never herd of Paraty but it sounds lovely! I’ll just have to add it to the list!

Brenna Holeman March 1, 2014 - 2:07 am

Thanks, Laura! If you’re ever in Brazil, I definitely recommend visiting Paraty.

Colleen Brynn March 1, 2014 - 1:44 am

I love LOVED Paraty when I was there in 2010… I have many of the same charming photos. This place is just begging to be photographed, right??

Brenna Holeman March 1, 2014 - 2:07 am

It’s definitely a very photogenic town!

Zalie March 1, 2014 - 11:32 am

Sometimes I just can’t decide what I love more…your stories or your photos! You are equally brilliant at both xo

Brenna Holeman March 1, 2014 - 7:36 pm

Thank you, Zalie! You are far too kind. xo

Ruth March 1, 2014 - 10:55 pm

I love Paraty! I stayed in Che Lagarto and recommend it. The breakfast was good and the private room big.

Brenna Holeman March 1, 2014 - 11:09 pm

Oh great, thanks for the recommendation, Ruth!

Helen March 2, 2014 - 5:29 pm

Beautiful writing Brenna and your photos really compliment it too! Although the bump on the head sounds painful! Glad it was just another awestruck traveller too and not something else!

Looks like a wonderful place to visit! I need to get over to South America one day! 🙂

Brenna Holeman March 2, 2014 - 10:59 pm

Thanks, Helen! I love when you comment, it always lifts my spirits. You’d love South America, I’m dying to go back…

Helen March 3, 2014 - 6:33 pm

That is a lovely thing to say! Glad I lift your spirits! Ha ha! 🙂

Oh I can imagine. I love the colours in your photos. Those wonderful, bold colours!

I want to be Kathleen Turner dancing with Michael Douglas in a Columbian street party! Can we go? And go dancing! 🙂

Brenna Holeman March 3, 2014 - 10:58 pm

Ha ha – done! I already have a red dress…

Jen March 2, 2014 - 7:42 pm

I am in love with the white, blue, yellow color combination. Wonderful pictures.

Brenna Holeman March 2, 2014 - 10:58 pm

Thank you, Jen!

J in Beijing March 4, 2014 - 1:19 pm

Am I the only one that read this as “parrrtay” until you explained the pronunciation at the end? As you can tell, I’ve never been there or to Brazil (I missed it last time I was in South America) but I want to! Anyway, lovely post and photos. 🙂

Brenna Holeman March 4, 2014 - 2:45 pm

Ha ha – I’m sure you’re not the only one! I always struggle with Portuguese pronunciations. “Grande” is actually said like “Granj”… I think.

Thanks for your comment, I’m glad you liked the post!

Alyssa James March 8, 2014 - 11:44 am

This was awesome – I love the descriptions and the way you described the German girl. She sounds like she would have been a laugh. I definitely thought when you got hit in the back of the hit you were getting mugged! Love your writing, as usual. 🙂

Brenna Holeman March 10, 2014 - 1:26 am

Thanks Alyssa – I thought I was getting mugged, too!

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